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Grindstone from Syria, about 1500 BC (Louvre Museum)

Grindstone from Syria, about 1500 BC (Louvre Museum)

Most married women in West Asia lived with their husband’s family, so young married women took orders from their husband’s mother. Sometimes the two women got along well; other times they fought the way many teenagers fight with their parents. Some families hit or starved the young bride, who had nobody to stick up for her. During the day, women spent some of their time in the fields with other women of their village weeding or planting or picking crops. Women weeded onions, picked figs, fed chickens, and helped harvest wheat and barley and lentils. When they were home, women were grinding grain, spinning and weaving clothes, cooking over braziers, and nursing babies. Many women got arthritis in their shoulders and knees and toes from spending hours kneeling on the ground grinding grain into flour.

Women enslaved as prisoners of war in Nineveh, ca. 750 BC (British Museum) (They're not children; they're drawn smaller to show that they are slaves)

Women enslaved as prisoners of war in Nineveh, ca. 750 BC (British Museum) (They’re not children; they’re drawn smaller to show that they are slaves)

Rich women led very different lives. Often rich women participated in their husband’s business, or ran their own businesses. We have a lot of letters that Assyrian women wrote to their husbands and business partners about trade. Some rich women were powerful priestesses in the temples, like the poet Enheduanna.

Slave women – and there were many enslaved women in ancient West Asia – also led different lives from free married women. Legal penalties for killing or hurting slave women were much lower. Many slave women never got the opportunity to have children. Thousands of slave women worked in factories, spinning or weaving wool and linen all day long so that rich people could sell it (Compare the situation of Chinese slaves spinning silk). Still some slaves also ran businesses, married other slaves or free men, and sometimes saved up and bought their own freedom.

For free married women, when your mother-in-law died, perhaps when you were about thirty years old, you would be in charge of your husband’s household on your own. As your own daughters grew up, they could be of more help to you, and then about that time one of your sons might marry and you would have a young daughter-in-law to help you too. Most women in ancient West Asia probably died when they were in their forties or fifties.

Younger West Asian Women
Learn by Doing – Property Project
Women in Ancient Egypt
Women in Ancient Greece

Bibliography and further reading about West Asian people:


Find Out About Mesopotamia: What Life Was Like in Ancient Sumer, Babylon and Assyria, by Lorna Oakes (2004).

Ancient Mesopotamians, by Elena Gambino (2000). For kids, retellings ofMesopotamian stories and lots of context.

Ancient Egyptians and Their Neighbors: An Activity Guide, by Marian Broida (1999). Not just Egypt! Includes activities for kids about the Sumerians, the Babylonians, the Hittites, and the Nubians.Everyday Life in Ancient Mesopotamia, by Jean Bottero and others (2001). Translated from French.

Life in the Ancient Near East: 3100-332 B.C.E., by Daniel Snell (1998).

Women in ancient Rome
Women in ancient China
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