Ancient Greek family
Most Greeks, like most other people throughout history, lived in families with a mother and a father and their children.
Usually men got married when they were about twenty-five or thirty years old (as they do today). But some women got married much younger, between twelve and sixteen years old.
Marriage and divorce in ancient Greece
Probably girls from rich families got married younger, and girls from poor families got married a little older. Because the girls were so young, they did not have much choice about who they were going to marry. Their fathers or uncles or brothers chose for them.
Occasionally girls had not even met the man they married before the wedding! On the other hand, many people married their first or second cousins. If so, they had played with their cousins when they were children, so they would actually have known them pretty well.
There was no marriage ceremony as we know it today. Your parents arranged it, and then there was a party, and the girl’s parents paid a dowry to the man, and then the girl moved into the man’s house.
If they were both citizens, and she lived in his house, then they were legally married. If she moved out of his house, then they were divorced.
Divorce was pretty common in ancient Greece. If you got divorced, the man had to return the woman’s dowry, so she would have some money to live on. The children stayed with their father, learning to run the farm or business they would inherit.
Other family members
Usually there were other people living in the house as well. Sometimes his parents would be there, if they were still alive and if they weren’t living with another brother.
Many people had enslaved people living in the house with them too.
Some people had their unmarried sisters or widowed sisters, or people with disabilities or who were old, living with them. The ancient Greek family included all of these people.
Rich women stayed at home
Wealthy Greek women hardly ever went out of the house alone. Mostly when they went out it was to go to weddings and funerals and religious ceremonies, or to visit other women.
Poor women had to leave the house
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