June 2016 - Most people living in the Roman Empire lived with their whole family in one room of a sort of small apartment house. These were built, like many cheap apartment houses in the United States today, around two or three sides of a courtyard, one or two stories high. The other sides of the courtyard had high walls to keep out burglars. Today we use these courtyards for parking, but Roman people (who didn't have cars) used them for cooking, and for children to play in. The apartment houses were generally mud-brick, with flat roofs that you could sleep on in good weather.
Roman houses for wealthy people, at the beginning of the Roman Republic, were a lot like the houses the Etruscans lived in. Most houses had a front door leading into an atrium (AY-tree-um), or courtyard, and rooms all around the courtyard. Sometimes there was a roof over the courtyard, often with a skylight hole in the center to let in light, and to channel rainwater into a cistern in the middle of the courtyard.
A video walkthrough of a rich Roman's house
In the back of the courtyard, across from the front door, was the parents' bedroom, or tablinum (tab-LINE-um). Later this became mainly an office, where you did business and sometimes ate with your guests. On the sides were the bedrooms, or cubicula (coo-BICK-you-lah).
Roman peristyle from Ostia
By the Late Republic, some Romans were beginning to build more Greek-style houses. These houses still had an atrium with rooms around it, but in the back they had a peristyle, or garden, with columns all around it, and more rooms around the peristyle. These are sometimes called atrium-peristyle houses.
This is the peristyle of a house from the Roman town of Ostia.
On the far side of the peristyle, there would often be a dining room, called a triclinium.
Build a model of a Roman house in Lego or in Minecraft
More about Roman kitchens
Ancient Roman Homes, by Brian Williams (2002). Easy reading.
A Roman Villa: Inside Story, by Jacqueline Morley (American edition 1992). For kids, with lots of pictures.
City : A Story of Roman Planning and Construction, by David Macaulay (1983). For kids - brilliant!
Ancient Rome (Eyewitness Books), by Simon James (2004). Also for kids, with lots of great photographs.
Houses, Villas, and Palaces in the Roman World, by Alexander McKay (1998). For historians, by a specialist.
Houses and Society in Pompeii and Herculaneum, by Andrew Wallace-Hadrill (1996). By a leading expert in ancient architecture.